Clay
Gravesande
and
AD
Smith:
Not
Together

While
Clay
expressed
his hesitation
to
getting
married
due
to
his
own
outlook
on
his father’s
infidelity,
AD
reassured
him
that
they
would
prevail
as
a
couple
and
all
seemed
to
be
well
between
the
two. 

But
once faced
with
the
task
of
saying
I
do
to
forever
at
the
altar,
Clay
said
I

don’t
instead,
telling
AD
that
it
wouldn’t
be
“responsible”
of
him
to
get
married
knowing
he
wasn’t
ready.

Cue
the
shock.

“I’m
going
to
put
the
work
in
for
you,”
he told AD,
“and
we’ll
go
through
this together.
I
don’t
care
what
nobody says; I
know
fully
I’m
not
ready
for
marriage
and
you
deserve
the
best.
And
if
I’m
not
ready
to
give
you
100
percent,
I
won’t
go
there
with
you
when
I’m
not
ready…I
can’t
say
yes
right
now.”

It
was
a
revelation
that
made
AD
declare
through
tears
that
the
relationship
was
a
waste
of
her
“f–king
time.”

As
for
Clay,
he
also
revealed
that
financial—and emotional—ties played
a
big
part
in
him
walking
away.
“I
looked
at
myself
in
the
mirror
and
said,
‘Am
I
a
husband?’”
he
admitted,
“and
the
answer
was
no.
Am
I
deeply
in love?
The
answer
was
no.’”

During
the
reunion,
Clay
expressed
that
he
made
a
mistake
and
wanted
to
date
AD,
but
she
played
coy
on
if
she’d
ever
consider
getting
back
together.

AD
confessed
that
she
did
go
on
a
couple
dates
with
costar

Matthew
Duliba
after
filming
wrapped,
but
they
are
not
together.